We confide in others but ignore the feedback. We ask questions but care less about an answer. We spend all day and night weeping about why things are going the way that they are for us, but have yet to take even baby steps towards positive change. 
In order to want better, we have to do better. We can say it’s hard, we was raised a certain way, we’re in it too deep but guess what?? Those are all excuses !! We are adults and I’m sure it’s hard but in order to be able to get through it and leave it behind we have to make attempts first. Being raised a certain way has an affect on you growing up however when you are given up and seen the right way of doing things, it’s time to put that excuses to rest. You can never be in it to deep if you hold some form of ambition, ambition for what you want for yourself. Right now it’s not about your children because they are clearly well cared for, it’s not about your pride , and it’s not about being afraid. It’s about leaving the pitty you have for yourself in the past and moving forward with what you plan to accomplish. 
You will be successful.

It’s Shalysa


don’t be defensive.

Often times were put in situations for others to benefit from. We may look crazy and wonder “oh why is this happening to me and nothing is coming out of it” it may be because you’re the messager, signals are being sent through you for someone close to you. Be open minded about the weird things that may go on in your life and if it’s unable to be fixed learn to work around it until you have come to a steep conclusion. 
No we are not gods, we may be super heroes to our children and the people that adore us but nevertheless we can’t stop what’s for us. You don’t know your level of strength until you have had to face real life situations. Changing is not always bad and it’s of us as adults to notice our lacking points in order to get things strictly together. 
Stop being defensive and let things flow.

It’s Shalysa👸🏽